Do you ever have the same argument over and over again to stop your ten stage recovery? Do you ever feel like you are running on a treadmill or that you aren't making any progress in recovery because you can't seem to break free from the same old argument?
What if there was a reason why you haven't been able to move forward and it's easy to identify?
When you are in the blame cycle in any argument, you will continue to have the same old fight.
But, you see, blame keeps you stuck. Blame keeps the status quo alive.
Could it be that you are holding back living your recovery purpose, finding what makes you truly happy and hiding from your recovery life because you are afraid to end the cycle of blame?
You'll be shocked how sneaky the energy of blame is, and how you can fall into this cycle without even knowing it. And when you realise that you are in the blame cycle, you can take your power back.
There is a huge difference between recognising there is a behaviour that needs to change and loading up on a big serving of blame pie.
Ending the blame cycle in your tense relationships will create more freedom, more love and a deeper sense of purpose in your recovery.
And, it will mean that you must start to look at your side and focus on cleaning up your side of the street, taking ownership of your part and creating healthy boundaries.
Specifically,ask yourself three questions:
1. What is your part in it?
2. What healthy boundary are you going to set now?
3. Who do you need to forgive (including yourself)?
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