At the stages we recognise guilt, guilt is our “admission of wrong doing. To gain a satisfactory answer we have to contact our child within.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_QdH2QrnKKa4dN-EMAqUnYov0ycF_ATm6pkut4FVBjgqDgnha0uPDN4DIvTnAR3qlnKaPdu3nPtRV1wftlGKG_bZFxSLCcLLsEqbSooeHu4wCPRTsxyd63rPjSJgnEZOdxbqqof_q6fX/s1600/CHILD+WITHIN346.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_QdH2QrnKKa4dN-EMAqUnYov0ycF_ATm6pkut4FVBjgqDgnha0uPDN4DIvTnAR3qlnKaPdu3nPtRV1wftlGKG_bZFxSLCcLLsEqbSooeHu4wCPRTsxyd63rPjSJgnEZOdxbqqof_q6fX/s1600/CHILD+WITHIN346.jpg" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />At the stages we recognise guilt, guilt is our “admission of wrong doing.”<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />That’s interesting. Admission of wrong doing. The first thing we thought was… ok… wrong doing, but wrong doing according to WHOM? To gain a satisfactory answer we have to contact our child within.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Who feels guilty when you feel guilty? <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Whose rules are you living by? <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Whose standards are you living by? <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Whose lifestyle choices are you living by?<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />All these questions need to be answered to determine why the heck you feel guilty in the first place.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You may find out that you feel guilty because you are living your mother’s life, or your father’s life, or your tribe’s life or your preacher’s life. Very rarely do we feel guilty for being ourselves when we live a Self-Approved life in tune with the needs of our child within.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />We feel wrong because we have adopted a belief system from someone else that tells us how we “should” or “shouldn’t” be, instead of listening to the intuitive voice of our child within.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You have PERMISSION RIGHT NOW TO BE YOU! or do you!<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You can express yourself or not!<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You can BE yourself. If not why not. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You can acknowledge yourself only if you are in contact with the child within.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />You don’t need to prove or earn your right to exist. <br /><br /><br />You, your dreams, your passions, your heart’s desires are VALID, OK and ORDAINED to be expressed through you.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Know this. Accept this. .<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />No apologies for being the recovered version of yourself.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />At the stages we examine why we do not have permission to be you, whose voice stops us and why.<br /><br /><br /> "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.'<br /></span><br /><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; 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At the stages we recognise guilt, guilt is our “admission of wrong doing. To gain a satisfactory answer we have to contact our child within.

At the stages we recognise guilt, guilt is our “admission of wrong doing.” That’s interesting. Admission of wrong doing. The first thi...

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